Harold Phifer

This title intrigued me and didn't disappoint. In 'Surviving Chaos' by Harold Phifer, an impactful storyline takes us on a roller-coaster ride, following the author as he grows up in a dysfunctional environment. He is constantly manipulated by a controlling relative, abused by a mindless sibling, and shamed by his schizophrenic mom and absent father. Catharsis for Harold came in the form of an explosion in Afghanistan which helped him regain focus in his life and enabled him to bravely recount his past experiences at a beach bar where his peace was finally realised.

This highly emotional but insightful, and at times, humorous read ensured my engagement from beginning to end. The sadness endured by Harold growing up defies understanding. As his life unravelled, he remained in control and I commend the author for his bravery and tenacity throughout his life ordeal. It took the author over fifty years to open up and reveal his past, a past that was unknown even to his closest friends.… (plus d'informations)

This book has many unfolding emotions. It was an emotional roller coaster for me. I expected it to be a normal narration by a person, just a normal, chaotic life, and it's ranting. But it was more than that. During a war at a place, Harold got a chance to open up and express the darkest fears of his life, which involved his mother, miserable aunt, absent father, and brother. He revealed the upbringing he received. His idea of life at that moment and what kept him moving even with so many adversities.

The author has the power to drive emotions. I was feeling like crying at many moments and felt like hugging Harold; he must have had a hard time and must have cried alone. I was highly impressed by the writing style, which keeps the readers soaked in sentiments and engrossed with the plots.
I recommend people read it and understand the significance of accepting true emotions.… (plus d'informations)

One very common issue that goes around in our world seemingly more common than ever is child abuse. It happens everywhere and it is something that is terrible and unfortunately won’t stop. We learn through his reflections that author Harold Phifer does his best to survive his controlling aunt, abusive big brother, and his schizophrenic mother for more than fifty years. His childhood living conditions remained a secret until one day an explosion in Afghanistan triggered his memories and brought them all bubbling to the surface.

The story of Harold’s road to recovery began at a bar in Thailand where he divulged his past secrets to a total stranger, and then began to find some peace.

The story itself is one of hope, motivation, sadness, struggle and survival. It is well-written and the book highlights the issue of mental health and importance of finding help and dealing with your emotions. Harold suffered right through his childhood at the hands of people in his family who may have been suffering from an unknown mental illnesses of their own (apart from his mother who we know was schizophrenic). As a very different type of book I think this is well worth a read.… (plus d'informations)

Oh boy, where to start with this one? Well, Surviving Chaos: How I Found Peace at A Beach Bar by Harold Phifer was a really intense read for me, Harold Phifer, the author, begins this book telling his childhood, and how even at a time when his family was completely dysfunctional, he managed to survive that part of his life, experience new chapters and travel, and well to be honest he survived only to land in a more intense adulthood. His time in Afghanistan forever changed him, he was in a massive explosion while working. Overall, the book is truly a rollercoaster of emotions, memoirs of a survivor, a brave one who bares his soul and his past to share with the rest of us. I totally recommend this book, is fascinating and inspiring.… (plus d'informations)