A propos de l'auteur
Carla Naumburg, PHD, is a clinical social worker, writer, and-most importantly-mother. She is author of Parenting in the Present Moment, the Mindful Parenting blogger for psychcentral.com, and a contributing editor at kveller.com. Her writing has appeared in The New York Times, the Washington Post, afficher plus and the Huffington Post, among other places. Visit Carla online at www.carlanaumburg.com afficher moins
Œuvres de Carla Naumburg
How to Stop Losing Your Sh*t with Your Kids: A Practical Guide to Becoming a Calmer, Happier Parent (2019) 87 exemplaires
Ready, Set, Breathe: Practicing Mindfulness with Your Children for Fewer Meltdowns and a More Peaceful Family (2015) 19 exemplaires
You Are Not a Sh*tty Parent: How to Practice Self-Compassion and Give Yourself a Break (2022) 9 exemplaires
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So, it's unsurprising to see these applied to the stressful situations that'll arise as a parent. While the first thing to come to mind is my friend rel="nofollow" target="_top">Paul Bowers' blog on swears for credibility, You Are Not a Shitty Parent is a kind, friendly introduction to self-compassion and how to apply it to yourself and your family. While people have parented for, well, millennia, that doesn't necessarily make it easy or intuitive and it's really hard to not feel like a failure (I imagine, anyway- this is still mostly hypothetical for me currently), but it's okay to allow yourself grace, and give yourself the space to examine where those feelings come from and how to be kind to yourself when navigating.
Like... it does come across a little hippie woo but! Reframing this as "don't talk to yourself this way, you wouldn't talk to a friend like that" has been extremely helpful in pausing to reconsider my own negative self-talk and it'll be SO incredibly helpful to foster that curiosity/kindness mindset in kiddo early on. I remember intensely judging myself for perceived failings as early as second grade, and I don't want that for my kid(s).… (plus d'informations)