Phaedra Hise
Auteur de The secret lives of hoarders : true stories of tackling extreme clutter
Œuvres de Phaedra Hise
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Étiqueté
Partage des connaissances
- Date de naissance
- 1964-11-18
- Sexe
- female
- Nationalité
- USA
- Lieux de résidence
- Richmond, Virginia, USA
- Courte biographie
- Phaedra Hise has covered subjects including entrepreneurship, small aircraft accidents, big problems raising kids, and what it feels like to rev a motorcycle around a racetrack at over 100 mph. She is an instrument-rated private pilot, a triathlete, a competitive cyclist, a scuba diver, and the cofounder of a growing literary nonprofit, and was an insider on two company startups.
Her award-winning work has been anthologized and published in national magazine, including AARP, Salon, Popular Mechanics, and Ladies Home Journal, and she has covered the world of entrepreneurship as a staff writer for Inc. and contributor to the Wall Street Journal and Fortune Small Business. She has written four other books and lives with her very messy teenaged daughter in Richmond, Virginia. [from The Secret Lives of Hoarders (2011)]
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Somewhat embarrassingly, I had to dig under a pile of papers on my desk to find this book. The Secret Lives of Hoarders by Matt Paxton, however, does a marvelous job of explaining the difference between "messy" and "hoarding".
I have never seen the show Hoarders, which always struck me by the way people spoke of it as vaguely exploitative. I know a number of people who watch the show purely to motivate them to clean their houses, and to gasp in revulsion at the detritus that accumulates in a hoarder's home. That said, Paxton does an admirable job of resisting the urge to write a tell-all, gross-out memoir of his professional cleaning days to grab money from people gleefully reading about hoarders (despite what the cover looks like, I might add). He writes about them with dignity, empathy, and compassion. Though he does mention some of the horrific things he's found, he is always quick to point out that this is a mental illness, and usually a reaction to some kind of trauma that compels people to collect things and never throw them away.
Though not a doctor, he also does research into it, all with the purpose of better helping those who hire his services. Here is a person who legitimately, genuinely works to help people, and who actively seeks out more knowledge in order to better help them. The more I read, the more I was impressed by him. Even I was shuddering at places, at some of the things he described, and I doubt I could do his job with even an ounce of the apparent gallons of sympathy he possesses.
The book reads more like a how-to guide for dealing with a loved one who is a hoarder. It explores why people hoard, including the underlying mental illnesses that can trigger hoarding as well as the local issues ("Why can't they just throw away their food wrappers?"), what people hoard, how to address hoarding in a loved one, and what not to do and what to do when helping someone in that situation.
If you're looking for that gross-out, horror story compilation, this is not it. This is, instead, a very solid, thoughtful look by a man who demonstrates his compassion and sympathy for people suffering from a serious mental illness.… (plus d'informations)
I have never seen the show Hoarders, which always struck me by the way people spoke of it as vaguely exploitative. I know a number of people who watch the show purely to motivate them to clean their houses, and to gasp in revulsion at the detritus that accumulates in a hoarder's home. That said, Paxton does an admirable job of resisting the urge to write a tell-all, gross-out memoir of his professional cleaning days to grab money from people gleefully reading about hoarders (despite what the cover looks like, I might add). He writes about them with dignity, empathy, and compassion. Though he does mention some of the horrific things he's found, he is always quick to point out that this is a mental illness, and usually a reaction to some kind of trauma that compels people to collect things and never throw them away.
Though not a doctor, he also does research into it, all with the purpose of better helping those who hire his services. Here is a person who legitimately, genuinely works to help people, and who actively seeks out more knowledge in order to better help them. The more I read, the more I was impressed by him. Even I was shuddering at places, at some of the things he described, and I doubt I could do his job with even an ounce of the apparent gallons of sympathy he possesses.
The book reads more like a how-to guide for dealing with a loved one who is a hoarder. It explores why people hoard, including the underlying mental illnesses that can trigger hoarding as well as the local issues ("Why can't they just throw away their food wrappers?"), what people hoard, how to address hoarding in a loved one, and what not to do and what to do when helping someone in that situation.
If you're looking for that gross-out, horror story compilation, this is not it. This is, instead, a very solid, thoughtful look by a man who demonstrates his compassion and sympathy for people suffering from a serious mental illness.… (plus d'informations)
This was pretty interesting for a book that wasn't really much more than "this guy crashed, we still have no idea why."
When I picked this up I was originally thinking it would be like the TV show, focusing on people & their hoarding situations. As it turns out, it's even more interesting, giving not only a bit of a biography about Matt Paxton, but also a sort of layman's psychological analysis of hoarding motivations and mechanisms.
I quite enjoyed the honesty of the writer stating truthfully that he got into the cleaning industry merely to pay off gambling debts - but stayed as he enjoyed being able to help people. Many folks would lie about the unceremonious entry to the field.
Overall a very interesting book, and, like the tv show, also at times disgusting.… (plus d'informations)
I quite enjoyed the honesty of the writer stating truthfully that he got into the cleaning industry merely to pay off gambling debts - but stayed as he enjoyed being able to help people. Many folks would lie about the unceremonious entry to the field.
Overall a very interesting book, and, like the tv show, also at times disgusting.… (plus d'informations)
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- 1
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- Popularité
- #124,308
- Évaluation
- 3.8
- Critiques
- 6
- ISBN
- 8
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