This good book on relationships is a refreshing view of many of the pathos that impede so much happiness and fulfillment. Some of her chapters (debunked myths) do not go to the logical extreme because that would require an even more shocking view of human sexuality. In a few instances her focus on the importance of selfish interests seems a bit overdrawn but her conclusions and points are well made. I just wish she would have focused on the selfishness of the partner more rather than using one's own selfish interests as a basis for a judgment. I recommend this for anyone struggling with a relationship issue. It will help clear your thinking and have better insight to what is realistic, truly meaningful and how to get more joy from life and sex. ( )