Why does lasting love seem so elusive? This indispensable and insightful book unravels the puzzling patterns of a man's needs, fears and expectations, revealing fascinating insights into what makes a man want to make a commitment to a woman. With true-life accounts from women who have successfully turned around foundering relationships, two renowned clinical psychologists show how a woman can dramatically influence the course of love. Here's how you can learn the secrets that evoke loving and positive responses from men and find out exactly what kind of woman a man loves -and stays with-forever. * Trusting a man to love your strength * Arousing a man's passion and desire * Deepening love through friendship * Giving up the prince and finding the man * And 11 essential rules for staying in love.