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Chargement... Too Perfect: When Being in Control Gets Out of Control (édition 1993)par Jeannette Dewyze, Allan Mallinger
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Inscrivez-vous à LibraryThing pour découvrir si vous aimerez ce livre Actuellement, il n'y a pas de discussions au sujet de ce livre. Pretty mediocre, not great for any one purpose but just barely adequate for most--whether for self-help, amateur education, professional education, or reference Ultimately I'll probably keep it around just for the few thankfully concise bits of general reference to the phenomenon of American obsessiveness without getting bogged down in diagnostic debates The general structure of the book and organization of the TOC is excellent for this topic however--another one of the main reasons I'll prolly try to keep this on my shelf for a bit In the end--too many examples (repetitive, most obvious/boring, little added insight), confused and unfocused tone/direction in elaborating on examples, and waaaaay too little theory, hardly any theory at all; abstaining from ANY discussion of theory does not make a book more accessible, it merely obscures the authors underlying thought process and justificatory Logic, while restraining the potential reach of what insight ur offering to readers And ofc, as always w the american mental health industry, much of the book is an apology for the american capitalist mode of work; this is smthg some theory might have pushed the authors towards discussing--the cultural background of more or less objective psychological phenomena; but alas the authors go so far as to assert that the problem underlying workaholism is not our model of work itself In fact I can't imagine any obsessive person reading this book and then feeling a sense of hope and direction afterwards, as the authors seem to suggest all obsessive problems stem merely from some ineffable notion of obsession that permeates modern America in an unplaceable way, more or less shifting the fault of the matter onto a person's self-awareness and childhood situation, and as remedy the authors can only offer that potential patients better conform themselves to the cisheteronormative conventions of sex and romance, and the rote daily structures of work-leisure under capitalism aucune critique | ajouter une critique
For many of us, perfectionism can bring life's most desired rewards. But when the obsessive need for perfection and control gets in the way of our professional and emotional lives, the cost becomes too high. Although many of us appear cool and confident on the outside, inside we are in emotional turmoil, trying to satisfy everyone, attempting to direct the future, and feeling that we are failing. In TOO PERFECT, Dr. Allan Mallinger draws on twenty years of research and observations from his private practice to show how perfectionism can sap energy, complicate even the simplest decisions, and take the enjoyment out of life. For workaholics or neat freaks, for anyone who fears change or making mistakes, needs rigid rules, is excessively frugal or obstinate, TOO PERFECT offers revealing self-tests, fascinating case histories, and practical strategies to help us overcome obsessiveness and reclaim our right to happiness. Aucune description trouvée dans une bibliothèque |
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Spot on. My poor family...having to put up with this shit. Oye. In any case, very eye-opening book. So eye-opening, in fact, that I stopped reading it for a year and a half because it hit too close to home. ( )