I read this entire book in one sitting, in the waiting room at the oral surgeon for my oldest kid (wisdom teeth) and it was perfection. (The book. Not the waiting room.) An absolute delight. Everything I wanted and then some.

Do you want thoughts on how to fill a day, how to live a life, how to balance the creative and emotional needs of two people who have been life partners for decades? Do you want depctiions of the kind of relationship where you can have a circular argument about unresolved issues from years ago that goes nowhere, but also understand each other so well that you can silently arrange to salve unexpressed disappointments for the other? Do you want women who take their art, their careers, their legacies seriously? Do you want boats and islands and attics that connect the artist lofts and homes of the two? Do you want a series of vignettes that depicts a relationship that closely resembles the author's own? All depicted with a hand so light and matter of fact that it almost hides how skilled it all is?

This might be my new favorite Tove Jansson. It was so wonderful. I am still reeling. ( )

These stories feel like they've been earned - you can't just set out to write something as understated, wise and sincere without the requisite experience. Jansson's storytelling is elegantly spare, and each tale conveys what feels like a lifetime's detail, encapsulated in a small vignette of a few pages. It is as if Jansson is sketching enormous, imposing landscapes in just a few strokes.

The theme of the book is the relationship between Mari (Jansson's proxy) and Jonna another artist - both around 70 years old - in all its fractious, stubborn argumentative devotion. They have clearly been together so long that each manages the other like one would an old car (or, more appropriately, an old boat), of which you know all that idiosyncrasies and annoyances and how to cope with them, and that, additionally, you dearly love. Contentment may be the word, but without any connotation of "settling".

Their stories are told in tiny vignettes, illustrating many varied aspects of their diverse life together. It's similar in that regard to The Summer Book, although personally I preferred this. In fact I started it again the moment I finished it, the first time I have done that with a prose novel, but, at just 100 pages, I was left wanting more. A beautiful little book.
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This is a beautiful story about two people in late middle age and how they navigate their relationship and how their quirks and foibles do and don't threaten their relationship. It is clearly a story but it has very little plot, or at least the plot is not center stage. In a series of 4-6 page vignettes we come to know them as vividly drawn individuals and we experience (without being TOLD) how they understand themselves and each other: how they argue, how they support and rescue each other, how they protect each other. The prose is simple. This is a slim, evocative excursion into a relationship that has weathered years and developed depth. Highly recommended. ( )

I read her "The Summer Book" when I was a young adult and remembered it as a book of yearning, so I wanted to read more about Jansson's life. (I followed that book long ago with one of the Moomintroll books & just thought it foolish.)
Reading this collection of possibly autobiographical stories was a mixed experience. Some of them showed the women's lives to be so placid and blase, so full of habitual patterns, that I couldn't understand them. In other stories we can see how compromises, acceptance, and tolerance were important for the women to keep their friendship along with being true to their own natures.
I particularly liked "Stars", in which Mari looks forward to an autumn camping trip, and "Viktoria" which gives a glimpse at the skills needed to live on the island, and both of those stories show the love held for her family of origin. A quote from "Viktoria" is a lesson I've noticed also: "When was it we realized we couldn't do it anymore?...it was actually interesting, not being strong enough to lift and roll anymore. It gave me ideas, you know--completely new ideas. About lifting, leverage, balance, angles of fall, about trying to use logic." (p.87) ( )

Best for:
Those looking for a mix between short stories and a novel.

In a nutshell:
Jonna and Mari are artists and friends who are in their 70s and live at opposite ends of an apartment building on an island.

Worth quoting:
“She’s not shy; she just won’t bother trying to be pleasant. She thinks it’s artistic to be gloomy.”

Why I chose it:
My partner gave this to me as a gift, I think because it’s a novel about friendship, not romantic love, and I wish there were more of those.

Review:
One of my favorite TV shows is Grace & Frankie. It’s not a perfect piece of art, but I love that women in their 70s are shown as complex people with their own wants and needs, not people who are shut off in a corner, watching everyone else live their lives. I don’t think we get enough of that in popular media - the exploration of friendship outside of, say, YA shows and books. Nearly everything revolves around romantic love, and while that can be interesting to me, I think the love of a friend is so interesting as well.

This book is a series of short chapters with no obvious through line. Yes, they probably should be read in order (I imagine the author had it in mind), but one chapter doesn’t necessarily follow from the next. Each has a title (similar to a short essay) as opposed to a number.

Jonna and Mari are both artists - Mari, I believe, writes and illustrates stories; Jonna works in other aspects of visual art (film, paint, etc.). They seem to be very important to each other’s creative processes, stopping in during the workday while also picking up on where the other is in their journey on a particular piece of art. They also have visitors, take trips, get stuck in storms. They clearly care deeply about each other, in a way that is so familiar that they know what to do next without discussion. It’s sweet and interesting.

They also aren’t perfect. Jonna can be a bit short, and Mari a bit passive-aggressive. Jonna strikes me as a bit more selfish, but not to a problematic degree. They are both independent and supportive of each other, and it’s lovely to read.

Recommend to a Friend / Keep / Donate it / Toss it:
Keep it - I can see myself reading it again, especially as I get older. ( )