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Destination Wedding

par Diksha Basu

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"From the internationally bestselling author of The Windfall. . . . What could go wrong at a lavish Indian wedding with your best friend and your entire family? Tina Das wants to belong, but she just isn't sure where. India or America? Brooklyn or Bombay? Manhattan or Delhi? Or start from scratch in London--she still has fond memories of her one-night stand with Rocco Gallagher, the handsome Australian, as they traipsed through Covent Garden and Seven Dials, but he never called back so maybe it's time to let that dream go, and focus on finding the next big story for her streaming network instead. She's hoping she'll find it at her cousin's lavish, weeklong Delhi wedding, and has taken her best friend Marianne Laing along for the ride to Delhi's poshest country club, Colebrookes. Marianne has always had international tastes, in life and in love, yet can't help but think of sweet, steady, khaki-clad Tom back home in New York. Also in attendance are Tina's divorced parents: her mother, Radha, who's bringing her American "boyfriend," David, to the wedding, and her father, Neel, who's using the visit to India to explore the idea of dating again, only to discover it and he have both changed completely in the decades he's been away. Infused with warmth, charm, and wicked humor, Destination Wedding grapples with the challenges of work, love, and finding the people who make a place feel like home"--… (plus d'informations)
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Affichage de 1-5 de 8 (suivant | tout afficher)
3.5

A little heavier than chick lit but only a tiny bit.

An extended family travels to India for a lavish week long celebration and they meet and mingle with all sorts while they are there. We explore relationships old and new plus cultural differences between countries with a bunch of laughs interjected via the fame hungry wedding planner.

I liked this author’s other book The Windfall too but there’s something about the books that keeps me just at arms length. I love how the characters are shown to have these really funny quirks (like Mr Das and his Fitbit) that make them real and loveable but there is still something about the narration that keeps me aware that these are characters and not actual people. I want to feel like they are real people. ( )
  hmonkeyreads | Jan 25, 2024 |
Definitely more of a 3.5 than a 4 but I have to roundup here.

Literary fiction is not my genre at all and I usually run away from such books, but it’s hard to resist when it’s by an Indian author, set in India but also being published internationally. And I thought the author’s previous book The Windfall was a fascinating enough read, so I wanted to read this as well. And this was fascinating too but I’m still processing my thoughts on it.

One thing I can say about the writing style is that it’s very very engaging and hooks us right from the beginning, and I never wanted to put it down. I literally read it cover to cover in just a couple of hours at a time when I thought I was going into a reading slump, and I couldn’t have asked for anything better. But the main theme of the book is about each of the main characters trying to find themselves and their own happiness, so the plot actually meanders without any general direction, except that it takes place at a desi destination wedding at a posh country club. That doesn’t mean it gets boring, because the author keeps us entertained with all the gossip and drama during a desi wedding and it’s all very relatable because our weddings are mayhem. I also don’t get to read a lot of books set in India, so that was a nice change, and I could actually empathize with some of the characters’ reactions to how India has changed.

However, it’s the characters about whom I’m not sure how to feel. The story mainly centers around the Das family, Neel, Radha and their daughter Tina alongwith Tina’s best friend Marianne. I really liked following the stories of both Neel and Radha, divorced but still friends and even partners in some ways. There’s a great understanding between them and I liked that they were able to make peace with each other, and also encourage each other to find future happiness. Radha’s relationship with David is sweet and I admired how self aware she was about what she wanted in life; Neel on the other hand is pretty skeptical about how to start dating again but it was a delight watching him try to navigate the idea of new love with Jyoti. Jyoti was another character who I thought was wonderful, sure of what she wants and what works for her and never letting anyone else dictate her choices. There is quite an ensemble cast too that left an impression on me, especially the wedding planner Bubbles and the groom’s grandma Nona who were both just hoots.

But it was the two young women Tina and Marianne who infuriated me. Tina is about my age, single and totally unmotivated in her work. I could really understand her desire to find both happiness in her personal life as well the drive to do more meaningful work; but when she started her rants about racism, privilege, poverty etc etc, it all felt very performative bullshit because she herself is extremely privileged coming from a rich family, an Ivy League education and having a job that affords her the luxury to live alone in a two bedroom apartment in Brooklyn. I also felt like she was fetishizing India’s poverty in the way she interacted with some of the characters and patted herself on the back when she thought she had helped someone. And while she does realize what she wants to do with her life, she is still the same person and I didn’t see much deeper changes in her.

Marianne on the other hand thinks her wonderful, sweet boyfriend at home in America is boring and wants excitement in life. As she recollects all her past relationships, it’s painfully obvious that she has a thing for exotic men and just wants a rich POC arm candy who will take her on wild trips all across the globe. I didn’t really understand if she realized how immature she was being or just gave up because she couldn’t find a hot rich desi guy interested in her during the wedding, so I can’t even say if there was any character development for her. With both Tina and Marianne, I don’t want to be too judgmental but they really are messy characters and I probably would have liked their depiction more if the author had treated it like a satire but it didn’t feel so. And if it isn’t a satirical take on privilege and the colonial gaze, then the utter lack of character development is pretty dissatisfying.

To conclude, I really enjoyed reading this book even if half the main cast pissed me off, because the other half did make up for it. And one can always rely on some desi drama for making any book entertaining. If you like books about an ensemble of characters and their varied messy relationships, then this book is perfect for you - it’s equal parts funny, dramatic and eye opening. But if you are someone who wants a coherent plot, then this is not for you. The author has a very unique take on the rich community in India and I’m looking forward to more of her works. ( )
  ksahitya1987 | Aug 20, 2021 |
Diksha Basu writes such warm, friendly, relatable characters. ( )
  bishnu83 | Apr 6, 2021 |
For those missing their Crazy Rich Asians fix, Destination Wedding just might fill that hole. A witty satire of people making bad decisions in luxury surroundings in Delhi – oh, and there just happens to be a week-long wedding happening in the background. This story is much more about the interplay between characters and their problems rather than ostentatious wealth. It’s laugh out loud funny at times.

Tina is the main character, and her main problem is that nowhere feels like home. She’s Indian, born in America, and hoping this trip will give her the sense of belonging she craves. But people seem to know that she’s not from Delhi and her Hindi is terrible. She’s also feeling dejected by her job and trying to fall in love with someone she’s disappointed professionally. Her best friend Marianne is not sure she’s ready to commit to her partner, and hides it the only way she knows how – by becoming fully immersed in Indian culture. Tina’s parents are divorced, and her mum has brought her boyfriend along – the charmingly bland David Smith. Her dad also has a plan for love, in having joined a dating agency for widows. Add in a delightfully eccentric grandmother of the groom, a ‘fake it ‘til you make it’ wedding planner and a lot of drama (think food poisoning, infected nose rings and a bus crash) to make this a wonderfully chaotic story.

Even though the wedding is the reason all the characters are in the one place, it’s really in the background. The story is about Tina and her family, and all the people they meet and bring into their lives during the trip. It’s much more character driven than plot driven, but Basu writes her characters in such a fascinating way that it’s really not an issue. There is a lot of backstory to Tina’s family, parents and friends as to how they got to where they are. If you want to know the details of an Indian wedding, you could be disappointed – but there is also a lot to say for class and the attitudes of Americans in a foreign country too (both good and bad). While I enjoyed the stories of Tina’s parents, I found Tina herself rather immature at times. She wasn’t happy with the way things were in her life, but didn’t really do much actively to change them until the end of the novel. Marianne was an odd character, trying to be part of the culture while failing spectacularly (and being culturally inappropriate too).

The story jumps around from character to character, which was sometimes just what I wanted and sometimes it seemed just too abrupt. Sometimes I was happy with no background plot, sometimes it frustrated me. I liked Destination Wedding overall, but sometimes I just wasn’t in the mood for Tina’s complaining.

Thank you to Bloomsbury for the copy of this book. My review is honest.

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  birdsam0610 | Dec 12, 2020 |
Usually love books set in India but this was a disappointment. Not sure why. ( )
  shazjhb | Sep 8, 2020 |
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"From the internationally bestselling author of The Windfall. . . . What could go wrong at a lavish Indian wedding with your best friend and your entire family? Tina Das wants to belong, but she just isn't sure where. India or America? Brooklyn or Bombay? Manhattan or Delhi? Or start from scratch in London--she still has fond memories of her one-night stand with Rocco Gallagher, the handsome Australian, as they traipsed through Covent Garden and Seven Dials, but he never called back so maybe it's time to let that dream go, and focus on finding the next big story for her streaming network instead. She's hoping she'll find it at her cousin's lavish, weeklong Delhi wedding, and has taken her best friend Marianne Laing along for the ride to Delhi's poshest country club, Colebrookes. Marianne has always had international tastes, in life and in love, yet can't help but think of sweet, steady, khaki-clad Tom back home in New York. Also in attendance are Tina's divorced parents: her mother, Radha, who's bringing her American "boyfriend," David, to the wedding, and her father, Neel, who's using the visit to India to explore the idea of dating again, only to discover it and he have both changed completely in the decades he's been away. Infused with warmth, charm, and wicked humor, Destination Wedding grapples with the challenges of work, love, and finding the people who make a place feel like home"--

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