It ever I wanted a man to just sit down with me and tell all he thinks I should know about men, this is the best way to do that. Sterling explains very well how men think and feel and what women need to know and do to win the battle of the sexes, although one of the first things you'll come to understand is that as a woman you will never win. It just isn't meant to happen. But rather than seeing this as throwing down the gauntlet, Sterling guides us (women) through the lines of fire and we emerge victorious, indeed, with our femininity still strong and healthy. Everyone benefits. All women should read this book. It might be the best advice you'll ever get about relationships with men. ( )