Henry Cloud
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A propos de l'auteur
Cofounder of Cloud/Townsend Communications, Henry Cloud is a popular speaker and licensed psychologist. Cloud graduated with a doctorate in clinical psychology from Rosemead Graduate School of Psychology and maintains a private practice in Newport Beach, California. Also a cohost of the nationally afficher plus broadcast "Minirth Meier New Life Clinic," Cloud has written numerous books with his business partner John Townsend, including Safe People, Twelve Christian Beliefs That Can Drive You Crazy, The Mom Factor, and the Gold Medallion award-winning Boundaries. On his own, Cloud, who specializes in individual adult psychotherapy, has written the books Changes That Heal: How to Understand Your Past to Ensure a Healthier Future and Secrets of Your Family Tree. (Bowker Author Biography) afficher moins
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Œuvres de Henry Cloud
Boundaries Updated and Expanded Edition: When to Say Yes, How to Say No To Take Control of Your Life (2017) 834 exemplaires
Safe People: How to Find Relationships That Are Good for You and Avoid Those That Aren't (1995) 683 exemplaires
Boundaries Workbook: When to Say Yes When to Say No To Take Control of Your Life (1995) 567 exemplaires
Boundaries Face to Face: How to Have That Difficult Conversation You've Been Avoiding (2003) 420 exemplaires
9 Things You Simply Must Do to Succeed in Love and Life: A Psychologist Probes the Mystery of Why Some Lives Really… (2004) 385 exemplaires
Boundaries for Leaders: Results, Relationships, and Being Ridiculously in Charge (2013) 230 exemplaires
Boundaries Participant's Guide---Revised: When To Say Yes, How to Say No to Take Control of Your Life (1999) 202 exemplaires
The Power of the Other: The startling effect other people have on you, from the boardroom to the bedroom and beyond-and… (2016) 184 exemplaires
The One-Life Solution: Reclaim Your Personal Life While Achieving Greater Professional Success (2008) 160 exemplaires
It's Not My Fault: The No-Excuses Plan for Overcoming the Effects of People, Circumstances or DNA and Enjoying God's… (2007) 156 exemplaires
Rescue Your Love Life: Changing Those Dumb Attitudes & Behaviors That Will Sink Your Marriage (2005) 129 exemplaires
9 Things a Leader Must Do: How to Go to the Next Level--And Take Others With You (2006) 107 exemplaires
Secrets of Your Family Tree: Healing for Adult Children of Dysfunctional Families (1991) 92 exemplaires
The Law of Happiness: How Spiritual Wisdom and Modern Science Can Change Your Life (The Secret Things of God) (2011) 81 exemplaires
Secrets of Your Family Tree: Healing the Present in Light of the Past (Healing for the Heart) (1991) 79 exemplaires
How to Have That Difficult Conversation: Gaining the Skills for Honest and Meaningful Communication (2007) 68 exemplaires
Trust: Knowing When to Give It, When to Withhold It, How to Earn It, and How to Fix It When It Gets Broken (2023) 60 exemplaires
Be Still and Know That I Am God [Videorecording] 30 exemplaires
Our Mothers, Ourselves: How Understanding Your Mother's Influence Can Set You on a Path to a Better Life (2015) 27 exemplaires
Boundaries in Marriage: An 8-Session Focus on Understanding the Boundaries That Make or Break a Marriage [DVD] (2007) 21 exemplaires
God Will Make a Way Personal Discovery Guide: What to Do When You Don't Know What to Do (2004) 17 exemplaires
Boundaries, Updated and Expanded Edition: When to Say Yes, How to Say No to Take Control of Your Life (2018) 11 exemplaires
Divorce & Love Lost: God Will Make a Way (What to Do When You Don't Know What to Do) (2005) 9 exemplaires
Trust Study Guide: Knowing When to Give It, When to Withhold It, How to Earn It, and How to Fix It When It Gets Broken (2023) 8 exemplaires
9 Things You Simply Must Do with Bonus Seminar DVD: A Psychologist Learns from His Patients What Really Works and What… (1748) 8 exemplaires
Boundaries: A 9 Session Focus When to Say Yes, When to Say No to Take Control of Your Life 6 exemplaires
Liebevoll Grenzen setzen: Durch Liebe und Konsequenz zur Selbständigkeit erziehen (2002) 3 exemplaires
Boundaries with Kids, Kit 3 exemplaires
Fins Necessários Os empregos, os negócios e as relações que temos de deixar para trás para conseguir seguir em… 2 exemplaires
Change your life with changes that heal 2 exemplaires
CCN Broadcasts: Groups that Grow: Starting at the End 2 exemplaires
Dziedinošās pārmaiņas : kā izprast savu pagātni, lai nodrošinātu labāku nākotni (2009) 2 exemplaires
Find Your Way: Unleash Your Power and Highest Potential 2 exemplaires
Mamo to moje zycie (Polish Edition) 2 exemplaires
Ultilmate leadership: A structured plan for the care 2 exemplaires
CCN Broadcasts Expanded Edition January 2006: Groups that Grow: No Perfect People Here 2 exemplaires
Ultimate Leadership: A Leader's Accountability Needs 2 exemplaires
過猶不及--如何建立你的心理界線 1 exemplaire
Raising Great Kids (Ages 0-5): Participant's Guide 1 exemplaire
為婚姻立界線--下個男人/女人會更好嗎? 1 exemplaire
CCN Broadcasts Expanded Edition November/December 2007: Ultimate Leadership: The Fears that Limit Leaders 1 exemplaire
No es mi culpa: ¿A quién culparé? ¿A la gente, las circunstancias o el ADN? Un plan sin… (2008) 1 exemplaire
El poder del otro: El asombroso efecto que otras personas tienen sobre ti, desde la sala de juntas hasta el dormitorio… (2017) 1 exemplaire
Integrity: Cultivating Character 1 exemplaire
Надежные люди 1 exemplaire
Boundaries Updated and Expanded Edition and New Codependency 2 Books Collection Set (2019) 1 exemplaire
One-Life Solution Lib/E: Reclaim Your Personal Life While Achieving Greater Professional Success (2021) 1 exemplaire
Boundaries in Marriage - International Edition: An 8-Session Focus on Boundaries and Marriage (2002) 1 exemplaire
Addiction 1 exemplaire
Ribos: kada sakyti "taip", kaip sakyti "ne", kad patys tvarkytumėte savo gyvenimą (2013) 1 exemplaire
為工作立界線 1 exemplaire
職場軟實力 1 exemplaire
[No title] 1 exemplaire
Building a Culture for Authentic Spiritual Growth 1 exemplaire
為婚姻立界線 (簡體) = Boundaries in marriage 1 exemplaire
Ultimate leadership: Character and leadership 1 exemplaire
Character Development Workbook 1 exemplaire
Changes That Heal & Changes That Heal Workbook 1 exemplaire
為婚姻立界線 : 如何建立你的心理界線 (簡體) = Boundaries in marriage 1 exemplaire
Játszmák nélkül hogyan kezdjünk hozzá a nehéz… 1 exemplaire
Auf der Spur des Glücks 1 exemplaire
O SEGREDO DE DEUS 1 exemplaire
收尾學 : 開啟未來的決策力 = Necessary endings 1 exemplaire
为孩子立界线 Boundries with Kids 1 exemplaire
Simplifying the Challenge: White Board Red Couch 1 exemplaire
Sophie and Sam When to Say Yes and When to Say No 1 exemplaire
What to Do When You Dont Know What to Do 1 exemplaire
过犹不及--如何建立你的心里界限(Boundraries) 1 exemplaire
带出健康的小组 1 exemplaire
Workbook Boundaries 1 exemplaire
为婚姻立界线 1 exemplaire
Creating an environment for spiritual growth 1 exemplaire
Ultimate leadership: Becoming fruitful in leadership 1 exemplaire
Boundaries Video Series 1 exemplaire
Boundary worksheets 1 exemplaire
How to build trust as a leader 1 exemplaire
Evolution of the small group leader 1 exemplaire
Groups that grow: A place to belong 1 exemplaire
Groups that grow: Processing transitions 1 exemplaire
Groups that grow: Dealing with difficult people 1 exemplaire
Groups that grow: Responding to people in pain 1 exemplaire
Ultimate leadership: Truth-telling in leadership 1 exemplaire
Boundaries with Kids Guide 1 exemplaire
Groups that grow: What do we all do now? Part 4 1 exemplaire
Groups that grow: Coaching life-changing leaders 1 exemplaire
Groups that grow: Building the guardrails 1 exemplaire
Engaging in healthy conflict in groups 1 exemplaire
Groups that grow: A time to laugh 1 exemplaire
Taking ownership of the outcome 1 exemplaire
Learning to listen beyond words 1 exemplaire
Groups that grow: Sharing the leadership load 1 exemplaire
Groups that grow: Going deeper 1 exemplaire
Ultimate leadership: A growth plan for leaders 1 exemplaire
Safe People Video Series 1 exemplaire
Réussir sa vie 1 exemplaire
Kweek Karaktervolle Kinders 1 exemplaire
Hoe mensen groeien naar volwassenheid 1 exemplaire
Turning questions into transformational discussions 1 exemplaire
Die een oplossing vir die lewe : Waardevolle strategieë om 'n balans te handhaaf tussen jou en jou werk, gesin &… (2012) 1 exemplaire
Necessary Endings 1 exemplaire
The Secret und die Geheimnisse Gottes: Ihre Wünsche - und wie sie in Erfüllung gehen können (2009) 1 exemplaire
Chave do Crescimento, A 1 exemplaire
What Intimacy Requires Part 2 - Defining Moments CD 1 exemplaire
What Intimacy Requires Part 1 - Defining Moments CD 1 exemplaire
Solutions: Imperfection Knocks at the Door 1 exemplaire
Solutions: Once Burned - Twice Shy 1 exemplaire
Solutions: I Deserve Better Than That 1 exemplaire
Solutions: Who's the Boss? 1 exemplaire
Свидания: нужны ли границы? 1 exemplaire
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- Nom légal
- Cloud, Henry
- Autres noms
- 亨利·克勞德
- Date de naissance
- 1956-03-17
- Sexe
- male
- Nationalité
- USA
- Lieu de naissance
- Vicksburg, Mississippi, USA
- Études
- Southern Methodist University (BA)
Biola University (PhD)
Talbot Theological Seminary - Relations
- Cloud, Tori (wife)
Cloud, Olivia (daughter)
Cloud, Lucy (daughter)
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- Œuvres
- 210
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- Membres
- 18,918
- Popularité
- #1,155
- Évaluation
- 4.0
- Critiques
- 130
- ISBN
- 489
- Langues
- 18
- Favoris
- 6
Cloud’s main idea is that relationships of respect and growth yield the most productive results. Key insights have only happened because other people have become involved in another person’s life. Other people can inspire us to do things that we simply can’t achieve in isolation. This trait is grounded in the neuroscience of how mirror neurons act in our brains.
Although this book is written primarily for the workplace, this central idea has contains a very religious, spiritual core. Not only does this work reference Cloud’s Christianity multiple times, but also it contains common insights of religion, that no one is an island and that humans do better in loving, respectful relationships. This motif goes against the grain that selfish jerks end up first. Indeed, Cloud speaks directly against such a premise in his conclusion and contends that these jerks could have had greater impact with better relationships.
This book still faces a few limits. He consistently uses the term “corner four relationships” to describe the healthiest, most generative relationships. This concept clearly refers to a chart in the book, but I was not able to view this graphic because I listened to an audiobook. This repeated abstraction is, well, a little too abstract for me. I wish he would have just coined a more descriptive phrase for it that wouldn’t be so vague and distracting.
Further, Cloud never discusses the area of difficult choices. He presumes that relationships should always come first. How do we tell if someone is, say, taking advantage of us? How do we psychologically balance our need for subjective trust with an objective evaluation? These and other confusing areas are simply not addressed in this text. That’s unfortunate because the values of any principles are most clearly seen in the required trade offs.
This book’s audience focuses on organizational leaders and those aspiring to grow. The message can encompass a wide variety of organizations and leaders. The book broadly addresses businesses, non-profits, educators, and family leaders. In particular, mentors can benefit from Cloud’s focus on cultivating synergistic relationships, and their mentees can benefit from figuring out how to make their other relationships yield more fruit. Throughout, he consistently reminds us that individual success always rests on the shoulders of other people, and the greatest leaders bring out the best in other individuals, not just their own greatness.… (plus d'informations)